Tuesday, November 1, 2011

TMI Tuesday : November 1, 2011

1. What sexual act arouses you the most? For that matter, what nonsexual act arouses you the most?

Oral sex of all types. I like watching porn but it's rare to see really good oral sex in porn. The sexiest oral I've seen always involves really slow movements. You have to take your time sucking cock or licking pussy. I guess it's more accurate to say I get really turned on by cock or pussy worship. You have to put your mouth on everything, you have to lick every inch. You're not just trying to bring your partner off, you're trying to show them that you LOVE that part of their bodies and that you don't want to let it go.

2. What is your signature or “go to” move that is sure to get a lover in the mood for sex?

Grabbing them by the hair, pulling their head back, biting their ear and saying "I'm going to take you now."

3. Do you queef?

Being a guy, no I do not.

4. What’s the weirdest thing that’s happened to YOU as a result of your sex writings (e.g., blog, erotica, sex toy reviews)? (borrowed from Insatiabear)

People bitching about me about my erotica writing. Most people have expressed enjoyment for my work but it's always weird to get people who are offended by it. I don't write tame stuff. Some of my writing involves rough sex, BDSM, blackmail, non-consensual sex and things of that nature. Generally when I post them up I try to warn people about what kind of story they'll be reading but I still sometimes get people telling me they hate my work because it offends them. I guess some people just feel compelled to judge others even when they can avoid what they find offensive.

5. Have you ever had sex while someone watched?
…someone else was in the room?
…someone else in the bed, next to you and the person you’re having sex with?
What were the circumstances?

Unforunately I've never had this opportunity. I think I'd like to try it, though I'm not sure if I would be completely comfortable with it or not. A lot of it would depend on the relationship I had with my partner.

6. When it comes to sex, and discussing it with your teen have you or would you:
a. Let school sex education handle it
b. Hand the teen a book or point them to a website
c. Talk frankly and openly
d. Avoid it all together–society, friends, and the internet will give all the info needed

I'm in suppot of better sex ed at school because so many parents don't talk to their kids about sex but if it were my child, boy or girl, we would be having a sit down and a full on explanation about the ins and outs of sex. I don't have children of my own but one of my good friends has had to deal with this over the last two years with her teenage daughter who is like a niece to me. She's very open about sex with her daughter and talks to her regularly about sex. Growing up, the extent of my sexal education was the health class in school and my mom making sure I knew to use protection. And when I say that, I mean those were her exact words. "Are you using protection?" "Yeah, mom." "Ok, good" Then she walked off.

Things are too dangerous today in the world of sex and theres no excuse for parents to not talk openly with their kids about it. The shame culture of sex needs to end and I for one hope that the things we teach our children today will help with that.

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Bonus: Remember the song, “I’m too sexy?” CLICK to refresh your memory
What are you too sexy for?

I'm too sexy for all the friends I have in real life, who have no idea how much of a pervert I really am.

6 comments:

  1. So interesting and titillating, as usual. Love getting a glimpse into your mind, Sir Badass. I see new DM convos on our horizon. Ha! The game is on, indeed. :)

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  2. First of all you had me at "I'm a bisexual man" then throw in superhero and consider me seduced! ;-)

    Welcome to TMI Tuesday.

    -H

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    1. After reading that, I'm all hot and bothered. And you are so correct good oral isn't about getting your partner off. "Take your time do it right..."

    2. Yes siree, that would do it.

    6. "...full on explanation about the ins and outs of sex..." *giggle*

    The shame culture of sex needs to end and I for one hope that the things we teach our children today will help with that.

    Amen! It really does. It's killing us.

    Bonus: GREAT answer!

    -H

    My TMI Tuesday can be found here:

    http://kinkygent.blogspot.com

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  3. Um, wow, glad to meet you! :)
    And welcome to TMI Tuesday from a fellow writer!

    You had me at #2 ;)

    My issue with sex ed in the schools is that it is going to be biased by whoever teaches it... I would rather that my kids hear it from me!

    ~Kazi xxx

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  4. Amy - Thanks! I'm glad you enjoyed it. Maybe I'll do another one next week for you to read. ;)

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  5. Hedone - Thanks for the welcome! I'm glad you enjoyed my answers and I'll check out the ones on your blog too. :)

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  6. KaziGrrl - Thanks for the welcome. I agree about the sex education in schools. Unfortunately many parents say they want to teach their kids themselves but then don't do it, or they do it half-heartedly. I'm in favor of sex ed in schools if they're teaching kids the dangers of STDs and how to gain access to and properly use protection. Sadly, there are man programs that don't do this at all.

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